A psychologist.
walked around a room while teaching stress management to an audience.
As she raised a glass of water,
everyone expected they'd be asked the "half empty or half full" question.
Instead,
with a smile on her face, she inquired:
"how heavy is this glass of water?"
Answer called out,
"ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz."
She replied,
"the absolute weight doesn't matter.
it depends on how long i hold it.
if i hold it for an hour, i'll have an ache in my arm.
if i hold it for a day, my arm will feel numb and paralyzed.
in each case,
the weight of the glass doesn't change, but the longer i hold it, the heavier it becomes."
She continued,
"the stresses and worries in life are like that glass of water.
think about them for a while and nothing happens.
think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt.
and if you think about them all day long, you will feel paralyzed, incapable of doing anything."
Sungguh ku bersetuju dengan kata-kata di atas.
hakikat sebenar.
semakin kita ingatkan masalah tu, semakin terasa berat apa yang perlu dipikul.
walaupun sebenarnya, kita memang perlu fikirkan cara untuk selesaikan masalah itu.
terkadang, masalah yang selalu diingatkan itu adalah hal yang tidak perlu difikirkan pon
tapi, gitu r.. kita tetap teringatkannya.
bukan senang nak lupa agaknya.
well,
just a conclusion from that inspired said;
"put down your glass."
<< put it aside >>
and,
"I WILL!"
adakala,
kita perlu letakkan gelas tu,
supaya kita tidak lebih tertekan.
supaya kita tidak lebih risau dan bimbang.
dan kadang-kadang,
supaya kita tidak lebih takut.
ya,
lebih takut.
<< paranoid. maybe. >>
insyaAllah,
"i'll make myself happier."
oh hati!
jangan fikir lagi.
stop it,please!
saya nak buka november dengan riang gembira tau.
=)
ok, novel "I Love You, Stupid!" tengah tunggu tu.
bye.
